First mom expecting again? - infant blanket sleepers
Mother for the first of my daughter just called me. She just discovered she is expecting. I knew he was and asked if she was sure he was ready for the parents. I had reservations about her, but she is sure that he is ready.
I had the honor of the first person you called to share their news. She asked me whether I still believed what he was before he said it for her during her pregnancy and after the birth of his son. () sees it as a kind of big sister. I assured him that I still, I always need something for them as they.
Even if I am for them and their new son, I'm also happy for her and her father want to see success with this new child concerned.
I want to do something special for them and I have some ideas. I thought other open adoption, or a parent first.
What do you think of these ideas:
1) pick up a few things, such as blankets sleepers, etc., that our daughter used as a child (and if this new baby is a girl, I have presented tons of clothes for our lil girl)
2) Take a baby shower
3) Buy books from pregnancy and child care (there are few books about pregnancy that I in my pregnancy, 5)
I am also open to suggestions.
In addition, mothers in the first place there are problems or feelings that you experiment with this new pregnancy and lose the child, as may their first child, and if I can do anything to with it?
Saturday, January 9, 2010
Infant Blanket Sleepers First Mom Expecting Again?
9 comments:
Dear Kidmindi,
"Frankly, I do not know think it is so impressive and beautiful. I keep a promise to her daughter's life, and we became friends."
Well, it is certainly very nice to family and friends to see the miracle of life for their children and support each other! Both worthy of great respect and should be proud of the example they set up for others and especially for their children. It is possible that you have nothing else to do, but you have many things well! I admire you so much!
I like your ideas! They are very serious and support, and I think everyone appreciates her more than ever know.
Number one is my favorite. It is believed to involve very pleasant for children and to get in touch and to feel like "family assets". This would have meant a lot to me to have been received from T. and L. 's baby stuff for his brothers. K. and P. are sentimental about things that their brothers and sistersand family members and I know he would like something "from" T. and L. I can not find words to explain the importance of "Hand-Me-Down May Be", but I understand what I 'm Getting It is a very sweet and thoughtful.
My suggestion is maybe to help others, simply write your child a note or make a drawing (depending on age) for his new brother, who can be put into a book for children. This is a very precious in the coming years.
Please accept my congratulations and best wishes to you all! I hope you all continue to have a happy journey and health as friends and family for a long, long time.
ETA: "She has a system to support families'
Yes it does. It was you!
For questions about the previous post, yes, it is possible that they may have feelings for him. My advice is simply to ensure that they will keep their promises and support that friends and famAIA members. Be open and honest, when we talk about things and remember that the hormones of pregnancy to be a factor in his feelings for a while like. (I know, I know, but it is sometimes difficult to remember, when situations are personal.) I think you will manage things right ...
I do not know me with the mother first, but I think it is the mother of his biological daughters, is that right?
If so (and I may be wrong), then are amazing!
All your ideas sound great, and I think you're something special for them to be in this time.
Please let me know if I'm on the concept of "first real mother."
Thank you and good luck!
I think his ideas are excellent, appreciate the support you and be happy for them and the new pregnancy. Indicate that the attention will help the trust (which is a little hurt because) he stepped from his first baby can be.
(Can not Believe the answer is not too much help, etc. - WTF? Every new mother needs help!)
Two thumbs up! I particularly like the idea of going through the family, such as clothing or special feature of his daughter. You're lucky, and they can usually tell.
Take a shower and be glad her daughter has a brother.
You sound like a great personality and has good ideas. All these ideas are perfect to do it for you.
I have not talked about it, but since you asked, can the support of all, what kind of man he is amazing that you are calling. It is so beautiful, I am so impressed with her and with you on this issue. Take it easy, because now that the cat on the issue, running on the books and etc, and soon, his ability to doubt their parents. I would not be a product of his first child, if requested, I might be odd. I feel bad for the first child is free for adoption.
I would like to respond only and do not give the stuff to make you know what they want.
I may want the conversations to which you want to discuss the child and to keep the nursery setting. They send links with beautiful ideas and things you can do to your account if you sew or knit Rate converstion. She is happy to have you as a friend, as it should be comforting to your support and not a trial, our best wishes in life the two.
to be treated like any other "friend" or "sister", which is the birth of a child. I do not see the need to strengthen their position as the first mother of your child to qualify. their "feelings" of his resignation, which is a departure from his son in comparison, there is nothing you can do to help. These feelings are, and if you choose to participate, you must accept their feelings and not try to help him through. "I would say fake.
Sounds like a great man! I have some of the clothes her daughter has spent in May, will be important to them, and maybe get a book about her pregnancy. I do not walk much and is too much, must be able to make something of his account. It may very depending on the contrary, it must be able to stay at their own pace of 2 to win. It is hard to say because I'm not sure you want to or anything about her relationship with her, but you can ensure that you are informed of any limits you like or you want about their participation in his life and his daughter. He gave me a child for adoption and foster mother has always said that hanging the clothes for me in the future, if I had a daughter. Not follow eventually, and I was gradually excluded from the life of my own daughter.
Hopefully, a positive experience for both of you! Good luck!
It seems incredible that things really work for you, even if I stayed in touch. I'm there almost an adopted son encouraged by my cousin and he wondered how this, because he would see how this might work sometimes. Unfortunately, I spoke of the family until the end and was accepted.
Back to the topic.
What new mother does not want a bag of used clothes? I think the best idea of all.
Books of pregnancy are also useful.
Is there someone to take a shower?
I see your dilemma. These are the things that could do a mother / sister / best friend for you and if you do not need someone else, you can choose the most important.
Good luck!
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